Headache Central-rant about my forum

[jonathanhopkins]

Okay well I already covered some parts of it on the cbox and was talking to Lucifer though he was right it would be stupid to delete my forum over a mood. So here is what happened and I'm going to put down the whole conversation I had with my friend since it would explain everything. First I showed my friend something off of my forum and asked him something. So this is what was said:

Jayson5: I don't think a paragraph is necessary for anything but the History option.
wchtcs: yep I agree
wchtcs: and this person said it wasn't even a layout but a n00b
wchtcs: and they're serious rpers.
wchtcs: and even said they don't want to hear from someone that isn't as experienced as they are.
Jayson5: Well that was snobby of them.
wchtcs: I know
wchtcs: Lilac says:
There's no form to them, and you have credit for it, who cares if it's bolded or not? Besides a control freak?
Lilac says:
Because they're n00bs and I'm a serious player, that's why
Tia says:
it is a form
Lilac says:
Then why are you being controling about it?
Tia says:
I'M JUST TELLING YOU!

(they asked why I am freaking the heck out but I xed out after) then this is what they are saying now:

Lilac says:
"OMG IT'S BOLDED!"
Lilac says:
People don't like being controled.
Lilac says:
And if you don't let them give detail who is going to get better?
Tia says:
I'm not even controlling you gosh all I am saying is you gotta follow how I have the layout. No bold, just simple
wchtcs: stuff
Tia says:
and yet you're trying to have it as if you're better than of me and how I should do it in my forum
Lilac says:
That's controling
Tia says:
its not!
Lilac says:
"No bold because I say so!"
Tia says:
cause I'm the admin
Lilac says:
You're reigning so tightly that people can't get better because you're being so grippy
Lilac says:
That's something you learn. When an admin not everything is about you.
Tia says:
look if I don't follow a layout people tell me. But when I tell you you freaking saying I'm controlling you cause you can't do what you want
wchtcs: and yet I told the person I didn't I don't just tell everyone to fill it out they do and I just approve.
Jayson5: Whelp...I've been roleplaying for nine years. I'd say I'm experienced. And I wouldn't write a damn paragraph for eye color. Because it's not necessary unless I'm trying, and trying way too hard at that, to show that I'm better than everyone. That just comes off as arrogant and stupid. And...if you chose to go into a forum, you follow the format and listen to the admin. That's part of being on a damn forum. It's called respect. An established rper should know that. And that's just the end of it.
wchtcs: yeps
wchtcs: and yet this is what the person said:
wchtcs: [e-mail] says:
Fuck, you're immature. *shakes head* "You aren't under my control! *ban* Power hungry greedy bitch. Go to hell and take your shitty site with you.
wchtcs: sigh I hate it I'm just trying to do what I am admin for
wchtcs: and I told them if I was to do that in someone's forum I would get yelled at
wchtcs: and I don't even yell at anyone
wchtcs: yeah they said they've been a rper for a long time. Pfft. I mean mine is just simple
wchtcs: and plus I have the right to delete and ban someone
wchtcs: especially if they don't freaking at least say "okay I'l do it. I can put detail in the history right?" and I would have said yes
wchtcs: and I told them over and over again
wchtcs: plus they said my site is shi**y. I mean yeah sure its not fancy pancy but heck I'm not TRYING to have it like that
wchtcs: they have this site that is fancy pancy
wchtcs: oh and also when they first came to the forum they wanna make graphics and crap like that.
wchtcs: if you tell me they are trying to be like staff and go and be rude to me over my bio format
wchtcs: so what if its not detailed its still a format
Jayson5: Don't worry about it. You're right. She's wrong and stupid on top of that.
wchtcs: yeahs and she shouldn't say stuff like that. I just only did the right thing. Now if you tell me, if say your friends come onto this (this is where I showed them the link so they could maybe see what I mean) (which is mine) would they do that and say its crappy?
wchtcs: heck I have about four to five people coming to the forum. I mean if she was to be my friend she should've said "okay I'll do that then." not being so rude
wchtcs: but yeah see?
wchtcs: of course their forums are fancy pancy and they even tried to show me how their layouts work
wchtcs: I wasn't trying to be controlling. I was just trying to be an admin
Jayson5: You weren't being controlling.
wchtcs: aw thanks. I know if I was I would have said more than of that.

Great now thanks of it I have a headache. Gee thanks a lot lilac. And yet they said I should go to heck? Pfft.

Going to go and take the other advil.

[Isi Runasimi]

Advertising is not allowed here, can you please stop making references to your forum. I have edited your first post and removed the link.

[michael]

Dude that wasn't advertising, its just I copied everything down from an actual conversation since well I have a hard time trying to put down what I want to say, but I forgot to take out the link so thanks dude. Besides I edited to where its not that long.